Some of you sweet Thriftnerd Herd members have mentioned you miss my blog posts. Oh, you guys. You warm my heart!
For those who aren't aware, on October 18th, I had a hysterectomy and bladder surgery. Big doins for sure. I am happy to report that I am alive and well and healing on schedule. Slowly, of course. Tomorrow, I have my first of 2 cataract surgeries. Does it go without saying that I will be thrilled and relieved to see 2013 end?
I haven't done any thrifting lately. In fact, not for at least 5 weeks. My shopping trips have been limited to grocery runs, and they've worn me out. One day last week, I stopped into Kohl's across the street from my house, and stayed about 5 minutes. Yeah, retail is far too exhausting right now to be enjoyable.
Nothing clarifies your mind and priorities quite like being unable to do anything but think. So, I've used this time to do just that.
First, I've found that, although I espouse and live a simple lifestyle, I found I STILL had way too much. More clothing, shoes, purses and jewelry than I needed. So, when I was able to do a little moving around, I loaded another bag full of just that. Nothing is as spectacular as having just enough. My closet is pared down, and I can get dressed even quicker. Kind of a big deal when you're recovering from major surgery, and what used to take an hour (getting dressed) takes a bit more time now.
Second, I promised myself to be the change I want to see in the world. I want a happier work place? I'll be a happier employee. Not a giggly, vomit-producing Pollyanna who drives her coworkers completely up the wall. Rather, someone who they look to for shedding positive light on situations. As positive a person as I am, I let my physical issues and the daily grind influence my work attitude more than I want to admit.
And, while I'm at it, I will strive to be the person who remembers those who are shut in. You who have sent me cards, goodies, emails, messages and brought me food and pretties? You absolutely made my entire life. Words can't adequately describe how you brightened my days here at home. I was always pretty good with the card sending, but now I vow to step it up a notch. I know first hand what a difference it makes.
I've also (finally) learned my husband's love language. It's doing things for others in need. Michael wore himself out cooking, cleaning, making me comfortable, and completely taking care of Claire and her many activities. He did such a great job, it just makes me want to do as much as possible for him. I love you, babe.
That's what's new with me lately. I go back to work soon, and shortly thereafter, I will resume my happy thrifting. We're knee deep in senior year, ya know, and my girl might need a few new pieces to brighten up her wardrobe, and reward her for being such a fabulous nurse.
Happy Thanksgiving!
